How?... continued

In order to feel good and draw the life you want, (and to be who you really are) you have to stop worrying.

Stop worrying? 
Aren't we supposed to worry?  Aren't we supposed to be prepared for the worst?  Aren't we supposed to prevent unwanted things by doing things that protect us?   Isn't the media constantly telling us about the next thing we should be worried about?

No, no, absolutely not, and yes they are.

When you worry, you are focused on what you do not want.  When you are focused on what you do not want, you draw more of the same.

This is a big thought to wrap your head around: A Belief is just a thought you keep thinking.  Nothing more. 

The only way to stop worrying is to either change your point of view about the subject (see Tools: Focus Wheel)  or change the subject and think about something else that feels better.